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whoever you are

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about the founder

This site was created by an adult gay man who is happily married to another adult gay man.

Some old guy

We both remember what it was like to be a gay teenager, even though it was many years ago for us. We want to help make life a little bit easier for the gay youth of today.

If nothing else here does you any good, we still hope you will look into a group called PFLAG. Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays is especially helpful for young people who are struggling with the issues around coming out, and for families who have gay members.



about the site

This website exists to serve the needs of young people who are questioning their sexuality. We do not wish to suggest to you what your sexual identity should be, any such attempt would be an insult and a waste of time.

We concur with science in believing that sexual orientation is a very complex component of a person's identity. We do not believe that a person's sexual orientation can be changed by any deliberate process, although it often does change spontaneously during the course of a person's life.

We disagree very strongly with all religious leaders that condemn homosexuality and/or homosexual persons. We believe that religion is a major destructive force in the lives of many people who happen, by chance, to be gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgendered.

Our message to those who speak out stridently against homosexual people is "You're ugly anyway, and we do not want to have sex with you. So get over yourselves."

We do not purport to tell religious leaders how, or with whom they may have sex. We expect the same courtesy in return.

For those who may be gay or lesbian, for those who think they might be, for those who are simply wondering, and for those who just want to increase their understanding - Welcome!

We criticize and disagree with all of the political and religious leaders who seek to obtain power, fame, and money by condemning innocent gay youth.

We reserve the right to deny access to this website to any person, automated process, or IP address we consider to be hostile.

No TV evangelists were harmed in the making of this website.

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